Off the seat of a bicycle
Chapter 18-19)
I come into police focus again
The years following high school were spent sputtering in and out of
college.
I had trouble in the dorm and my roommate moved out saying he was
afraid of me. It was the same reason my father threw me down the steps
I suppose.
You know, not until I started writing this book and cataloging the
events from my life have I gotten to see that certain themes have
re-played over and over in my life.
Why was this guy afraid of me? Why were my teachers afraid of me? Was
this because of my rage? Frankly I don’t know, because I was never
aware of my rage prior to writing this book. I can’t tell you what
those people saw.
I wasn’t actually dangerous, just loud and needed massive alone-time
and quiet to settle my spirit.
I do know my roommate intentionally walked in on my girlfriend and me,
and I thought he just wanted to see her naked. On the other hand maybe
I was hogging the room.
I remember also that he was a popular guy and was saying stories about
me to everyone. I was taught to keep my mouth shut, and here he was
spreading my personal information, but he was only privy to my
information since he lived with me. Maybe I was shoving that fool out
the door, and did it by using my intimidating personality. I don’t
remember.
For some unknown reason, while living in the dorm, I stole a statue and
kept it for a couple days before returning it to the building lobby
where it came from. My roommate narked me out. The school sent me to
one of their psychologist
where I must have performed adequately. Afterwards the school put me on
probation but I was just so fucking quasi-social.
I finally gave up the school-charade after a year and a half. I quit
and was living with my mom.
My father had money and success and he supported me fully or partially
for the next ten years. I think my mom encouraged me to fail in some
respects because it was how she thought of herself. I think too she
wanted to punish my father.
I didn’t understand the rancor of their relationship and how that
footballed me across the field. I remember thinking that I was waiting
during my entire childhood for my parents to give me permission to do
something, yet I didn’t want a suit-and-tie job. It’s like I wanted to
be a geologist but nobody said I could be that, so I just waited. They
discouraged and distained my artwork. I loved to draw, it was truly in
my soul. But their reaction caused me to throw away all my work.
I was 20-21 years old, but didn’t have a regular job when I lived at
mom’s. Of course everything was cheap by today’s standards. I didn’t
own a car for another 6 years, and was happy riding a bike and walking
everywhere. I loved being outdoors and these were the formative years
for my bicycling even though I had ridden all my life.
After quitting school, my father heard about it and drove into town for
a solid chit-chat, which got nowhere. I was flattered that he came just
for me because I hadn’t seen him since he left … but what
influence did he think he had?
Today ... I wish I'd said how happy I was to see he was okay, but he
was just angry.
We had to sit in his car. He couldn’t go into Mom’s house, and my
hang-outs were wrong. He had only one hour to get it done and get back
to work, but I was destroyed by my upbringing wasn’t I? Wasn’t that his
fault?
Again, my course was already cast; I was too unstable to decide about
life now. I had been taking drugs, and spent most of my time on the
streets around campus. My mother accused me of spending all my time
‘squiring’ the girls about town. I didn’t think that was true because I
had a steady girlfriend, but I was ‘trying to find myself’ and didn’t
have a clue.
The meeting with my father disjointed everything and I moved out of
Mom’s house and stayed in empty classrooms and anywhere I could get in.
It was winter and cold. I was homeless and dreamed of finding success
but didn’t know which direction to go … at least I wasn’t wandering off
in the woods, my brain wasn’t that derelict. I was still trying … but
what was I waiting for?
A friend told me about an apartment building that had 5 free rooms in
the basement if the person would sweep and mop the halls and burn the
trash. The apartment manager was just evicting another dead-beat so he
had a spot open and offered me a room. I was settled at last.
The room was 20 feet long and 6 foot wide and it felt like paradise.
Everything became easier with Mom out of my hair and I felt better
without her crushing anxiety. I could breathe.
I was beginning to get small jobs around campus. I bubbled-in form-B’s
for a researcher, helped a guy move into his new house, painted another
guy’s house. Loaded and drove a u-haul to Cleveland for a guy who was
moving there with his wife, and hitchhiked back. He was worried for me,
but I said no, and got off at the highway ramp and put up my thumb. I
hitchhiked several places before.
I
worked a day here or there, and sometimes worked around the apartments
to subsidize my father’s allowance. I learned to paint at those
apartments for $2 an hour … and it was a trepid start to what
eventually became a livelihood.
It was a good time for me and I
fit into campus life since I was the same age as the students and had a
nice girlfriend, Susan W. She was always nice to me and was in a school
… but I wasn’t taking classes … all I did was ride a bike and walk
around campus most of the day.
Somehow I came into police focus again.
It had been three years since the last investigation but I wasn’t
stealing or breaking any law other than occasional drug use. But that’s
a lie I told myself. I was sport for criminal mischief at all times.
Drugs weren’t an everyday thing for me … oh hell yes they were. I
smoked dope every day and I was a large person with dirty clothes, and
stuck out because I talked loud. In retrospect, I probably seemed
threatening to those who didn’t know me. I was a hippie, and looked
street. I had the requisite long hair and was in the crowd the day they
tried to take the administration building. I successfully dodged the
draft and signed the ‘subversive’ sheet.
Yes I took the inductee bus to Indianapolis and signed the ‘subversive
American’ sheet. I dodged the draft.
Before
I left, I asked my girlfriend if she would wait. She shook her head. I
liked her honesty. I’d heard stories of girls that promised to wait but
had to send a dear John letter to the guy while he was overseas.
Anyway, it gave me motivation to get rejected.
The inductee center kept me a few hours after the bus left. They said
I'd have to recant my subversive sheet. No way. I saw the leverage it
gave me. They said they'd have to do a full investigation of my family
and friends. I just
shrugged. Lol, good luck
finding a friend. And my mom would never
narc me out. I could depend on that 100%.
Late in the day, I was supposed to go meet with the Major who would
decide how many days
they would detain me. I sat in the outer office for a while, looking at
him through the glass, and then just got up and left. I was on my way
out the door to the street when they stopped me.
They took me back to first guy I talked to, who gave me a bus ticket
and said I was turned
down for service. 4F, I was unfit. Spot on, they got that right.
I had
to walk a while to get to the greyhound station. No military bus for me
… but in reality, I couldn’t go into the military any more than I could
take the athletic locker with the school basketball team. If I couldn’t
sit next to members of my own basketball team, how could I join the
military?
But the police didn’t come because I dodged the draft.
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Chapter 19 the drug set-up
The police came because I was seen in drug circles. I wasn’t a factor
in drug deals beyond a pill here or there, but I influenced others to
take drugs, and saw it as a good thing. I openly blabbed about drug
experiences … good lord, the one time I should be tight lipped about
something, I run my mouth to everyone.
We used to gather at the pizza parlor, but not for drug deals. It was
just somewhere to be. It was a bustling time and I felt camaraderie,
and felt warm and accepted by the people, even though I don’t remember
anyone. But these were wonderful times because I belonged. We were all
the same age and energy, and the ideas were fresh and alive like we
invented everything anew. But it was an illusion since these people
were in school and would soon be gone and make lives while I would
continue to stumble.
I lived the illusion, and it felt great. We gathered one night with
everybody excitedly talking about nothing. It was just people. I wasn’t
selling or carrying drugs. There was no talk of drugs, there was no
purpose to the conversation. It felt fresh and there was no harsh
battery overlooking the conversation ready to fire salvo against any
misspoken word or slovenly drip on your chin. My father wasn’t there. I
was with my peers and successful and calm, and was the person I wanted
to become.
Then the door opened and in walked Mike. He didn’t fit. I knew him from
high school where we got into a fight of sorts. He hung out with the
rougher guys back then and I got sideways over a pissing right to
something and they tried several times to get it off in a brawl. But I
wouldn’t fight. I knew if you hit one, then the others would come for
their turn. It was stupid and I should’ve made friends with them, or smashed the shit out of him, but I
didn’t want their lives, and maybe that was the problem.
Mike and Jeff caught me once on a back street. They screeched their car
to a halt and started rousting me. Mike quickly backed away, saying he
wouldn’t fight anyone who didn’t fight back, but that wasn’t why. He
backed away because I looked down the steep slope next to us, and he
knew I was going to take him down that hill, and he didn’t want to go.
That’s why he backed off. Jeff said he didn’t care, and rushed in
putting a fist right at my mouth, but I moved my head back and all he
got was air. Quick as that, the non-fight was over; I was dutifully
intimidated, and those guys never bothered me again … or so I thought.
Someone told me Mike was playing in a Stones-style band in
Indianapolis, but here he was tonight. He walked up and asked to
‘borrow’ $5 so I gave him the money, and he left. My daddy kept my $50
monthly allowance going despite our differences. I lied to my father
and told him I was taking classes.
Ten minutes later Mike came back and showed me a piece of aluminum
foil. The other people at the table must have been witnesses. It was
folded into a tiny rectangle and he said ‘it’s morphine.’ He asked if
I’d take it in exchange for the five dollars but I wasn’t interested,
and said, ‘keep the money.’
Mike left but came back two minutes later and handed back the five
dollar bill. In a brief glimpse, I saw a human being standing there
when he smiled at me. Mike was doing ok, but the whole thing was
curious until Larry the narc walked past a few minutes later and we
exchanged looks. So that’s what it was … a drug set-up … good thing
they didn’t offer up hash, because I would’ve taken that.
Larry the narc probably didn’t realize that I knew exactly who he was.
See, I’d seen him at the SDS rally. I saw him again when he was
searching somebody’s dorm room with several men looking for drugs.
Somebody pointed him out that day and I would see him a number of times
again. I never displayed emotion around him .... just observed.
Chapter 20) Bones and Dan the informer
Chapter 21) A fledgling business is born
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