Life's hero

Life's decorums that you are supposed to inately know
which I have found confusing
a hindrance mostly
that impedes getting things done
in other words, don't make me kiss your ass to get your feet off the desk and ass up out of the chair
be somebody of worth
you jump forward with ideas that can help
you think of solutions, intead of sobbing about yourself

So how could there be a greater hero than this man.
but to me a hero is somebody who does the day
who learns and shares knowledge
who keeps things working
not to cheat or bend but improve our lot
unlike the internet that locks us into boxes
where we can consume only what they say or predetermine
this man was above that
a hearo
not rich, but wealty